Sarah Rees Brennan
The first is her blog [LJ post from October 2011], the second is her blog plus fiction [post from April 2013].
Sarah's blog mentioned Ilona Andrews and here is the link for that 2011 post, Yet More About Reviews ... which is also about what happens when you become an author and it is all your fault.
Curious? Go read it and find out what Ilona is talking about.